On a weekday in mid-October, I got a call from my mom telling me that my dad was getting some extra tests run after his doctor heard fluid on his lung during a regular check up. Though my heart stopped, the logical (possibly naive?) side of me took a few breaths and knew I needed to wait for more information. Since that phone call, there have been a flurry of different tests, sometimes feeling painstakingly slow to get results from, but this week we received the pathology results from tissue biopsy and we finally have an answer.
My dad has been diagnosed with Stage III Mesothelioma.
Cancer. Writing that knocks the wind out of me. Writing this right now has me in tears, as if it somehow makes it more real, but it is real. And I’m so broken inside. I’m sharing this with you because the love and support I’ve received as I’ve started opening up to friends about this is giving me the strength I need to support my family so if you are the praying kind, or the good vibe kind, I am in desperate need of them right now.
Mesothelioma is a super rare cancer, one I feel like I’ve become an expert in over the past month, since the doctor first told us he believed that is what we were facing. There are less than 3,000 cases diagnosed in the US a year. 80% of those cases are tied to asbestos exposure, which to my knowledge, Dad has no history of. For the past eight weeks I’ve been through a whirlwind of emotions from confusion and disbelief, to anger and heartbreak, and somehow even gratitude and hope. My dad is a really healthy guy who has always taken good care of himself and I’m trying to make sense of all of this without giving into the dark emotion of feeling like this all just really isn’t fair. But since when has cancer ever been fair?
As you can probably tell, I’m still struggling with wrapping my head around everything. Some days I’m OK and on other days I’ve broken down in tears in the middle of the grocery store. But this isn’t about me– except for the fact that my dad is such a huge part of who I am. And those words don’t even do our bond justice.
Some of you have commented that you feel you know my dad. Some of you read his articles and many of you see his comments on my posts. He is (and always has been) my number one fan, encouraging me to go after anything I want, believing in me, and keeping me grounded with solid, applicable advice along the way. We’ve always shared the closest of bonds and when people comment that I take after my dad, I wear that compliment with pride.
I talked with him for a while yesterday, because I would never share any of this without his OK. Talking to him is therapy in itself because it reminds me that cancer is what he has, not who he is. He’s still my dad- full of insight, strength, love, compassion, humor, and a dedication to a positive, grateful mindset.
So where are we now? My mom and dad have an appointment with a mesothelioma specialist next week and I am hopeful we’ll have more information and clarity after that.
I can’t share this heartbreak without also acknowledging the good I’ve witnessed during the past 8 weeks too. My belief that most people are good has been strengthened beyond belief. The outpouring of love, prayers, and support has brought me to my knees. Though I truly hate being on this side of compassion, I can attest that it is not overrated. From soup being delivered to my door, to my wonderful family offering to watch the girls anytime I need (which I did this past Monday as I drove into Atlanta to have dinner with my mom, dad, and brother), to text messages that just say I’m praying for you and you’re on my mind, to friends understanding last minute cancellations, to friends in the medical profession helping me decipher confusing medical jargon, to emails from some of you full of understanding and love, to a dear friend showing up at my doorstep in penguin pajamas, carrying apple pie and wine. I never knew my heart could be so broken and so full at the same time.
I don’t really know how to tie things up here, but do know that I am grateful. Grateful for my incredible family, grateful for your support and love, and grateful for having this space to share my life. So truly, thank you. And if you can you relate or are facing similar circumstances, please know I am desperately praying for strength for you as well. <3
katie says
Love to you and your entire family/friends network. My mom had colon cancer and was just asked by her doctor to do a few more tests so I know a bit of where you are coming from. May you and your family really snuggle in this christmas season.
Lisa Faltenhine says
Cancer is horrible . Love, prayers and good vibes to you and your family.
Kristen says
I just wanted to tell you that I promise to be praying for you and your family. I don’t say those words lightly or just to say them. There is power in prayer. My heart hurts for you, but I am so thankful to see all of the help and love you have been receiving. Praying for you all!!
John J. says
I love you! Grateful for who you are, and your overwhelming love, support, and insight. You’re a better writer, too. 🙂
Jodie Flicek says
Grateful for YOU. That you have created such a beautiful daughter and that I get to be a witness to that.
Jane Preston says
Oh Brittany, that was beautiful written.
It is hard to put into words what I want to say. I’ve known you since you were a little girl and this diagnosis is ripping my heart out. I can’t imagine what you and Kris are feeling right now.
Your parents are our dear friends and your Dad is quite the fighter, so cancer won’t know who it is messing with!! And, your Mom and Grandma Betty, well they don’t get any stronger.
Bob and I are here for you.
We love you and sending prayers and hugs your way.
Jane
Erin says
“But since when has cancer ever been fair?” Isn’t that the truth. I am so very sorry to hear about your father’s diagnosis. Please know that I am thinking of you and your family, and sending lots of good thoughts your way.
Erin says
I’m so so sorry to hear about your dad. Cancer sucks. If there’s anything I’ve seen on your blog about him though it’s how amazing and full of love strength and resilience he is. You can definitely tell you take after him. Sending love and prayers to you and your entire family.
Chelsea says
This is so heartbreaking and I am so sorry you and your family are having to go through this. My family and I will keep you guys in our prayers.
Miki says
Praying for you and your family. My father was diagnosed with cancer in February and I’m praying for your strength as I know how difficult and overwhelming it is to process all of the emotions emotions and all of the information from doctors. Researchers have made so many advancements in treatments and therapies, and hopefully one of these will be able to help your dad. Sending extra positive thoughts and prayers to your dad, I always love the sweet comments he leaves on your blog. Keep us updated as you’re able.
Cristina Rojas- the batchmaker says
so so sorry to read this! you better believe I will be praying for you and for him! sending you big big hugs this AM.
Glenda says
I’m so sorry to hear this news. Thinking and praying for you and your family.
Lynn Thow says
I’m am so sorry your family is going through this difficult time. I’ve always noticed your daddy seemed to be the first one to comment on your posts. His love for you and how proud of you in how well you take care of your family is apparent in his words. What a special relationship the two of you share.
I will keep your family in my prayers.
Samantha Brinn Merel says
Oh Brittany I am so, so sorry to hear this news. I have been reading your blog for years and have loved your posts about your family, and your dad especially. I am sending lots of love and prayers your way. All the very, very best to you, David, the girls, your parents, and your whole family. We are holding you all close today.
Danya says
Praying for you and your family!
Heather says
I am so sorry Brittany. I will be praying for you and your family.
Liz says
My heart goes out to you and your dad (and the rest of your family). Cancer f’ing sucks. My dad had it twice (in his 20s and in his early 60s) and lost his battle the second time around. There are no words to explain how much a cancer diagnosis for a loved one sucks. I’m thinking of you and sending good thoughts your way.
Wendy says
Praying for you and your family.
Christina says
So much love to you and your entire family. Have faith. Praying for the very best as you move forward.
Emily says
You guys are continually in my prayers and thoughts. I hate that cancer has brought us together but cherish the beauty in it’s silver linings. I know all too well the feelings you have been having!!!
Jess Mathias says
Brit-
I am so so sorry. I am praying for you and your family. Wishing the bet for your Dad.
Sara says
I am so sorry to hear this news. Sending lots of prayers to you and your family!
Natasha Carneiro says
I am so sorry, cancer just sucks, there is no other word for it.
Both you and your dad write so beautifully, it really hurts my heart to hear that you have to deal with this.
Big hugs to you all xx
Ali Damron says
Praying for you! This is the worst thing to hear. I remember 14 years ago hearing that my dad had cancer and it was confusing, shocking, scary and heartbreaking. Seriously if you ever need to talk to someone who has been through her share of family cancer diagnoses, I’m always here to support! Thinking of you.
Kate says
I can’t even verbalize the amount of love, hope and strength I am sending your way. You are stronger than you know, as I see through your constant positivity in posts. I believe that a positive attitude is the most important medicine in times like these, so while I know there are times for reflective moments of sadness, continue to channel that positivity you always have. He will get through this, as will you.
<3
Karen says
I am so sorry to hear this, I am thinking of you and your family during this difficult time.
Kathy says
So sorry to read what you have been going through. Thank you for sharing with us though so we can surround you with love and prayers for you and your family. During the next appointment I hope your family receives encouraging news. Praying for you and remember that God is always good! <3
Jennifer says
I am so sorry. My prayers are with you and your family! I have been reading your blog for years and I feel like you are a friend. Big hugs girl! When I was in high school my Mom had stage 4 Breast cancer, it isn’t the same thing as your Dad’s but I understand the pain and fear. I’m praying for strength and healing for you and your family.
Chrissy says
I’m so sorry to hear this! Prayers for you and your family!!
Kate says
I’m so sorry that you and your family are going through this right now. Really inspired by the way you’ve chosen to approach such adversity. Sending lots of love and prayers your way <3
Stacy K. says
This breaks my heart to hear this because the feeling of losing someone to cancer, especially Mesothelioma is so raw for me still. I lost my cousin this summer to it, it was the first time someone in my family had canacer and I had no clue where to turn or go. I also learned so much about Mesothelioma because it is so rare I was so lost in the imact it had.
I will pray for you, your dad and your entire family that his figth against this terrible cancer ends in a positive ways. There are treatments and trials out threee right now and i hope your family finds one that can get your dad healthy again! Xoxo
Kacie Barnes says
I just said a prayer for your dad and your family. Cancer is so scary. I prayed for God to bring comfort and healing. <3
Heather says
So sorry to hear your news. I’m sending love and light to you and your family! Hang in there!
Sue says
I am so sorry to hear this, Brittany, and will be praying for you and your entire family to have “the peace that passes understanding” as you walk through this with your dad. Asking God for wisdom for your parents as they determine what treatment options are best, and, of course, for healing. (If they decide to visit MD Anderson in Houston, please let me know how I can help–airport pick-up, whatever.)
Elizabeth says
Oh, I am so sorry to hear this and sorry for you and your family. My father has been battling cancer on and off for the past four years, and it is heartbreaking and emotionally taxing. At the same time there are times when you can live in the moment and just focus on enjoying a moment in time when you are together and that’s all that counts. Positivity really does help as others have noted, and both you and your dad are such positive people. Praying for your dad and your family.
xx
Kim P says
My heart breaks for you and your family. I just lost my dad a year ago to lung cancer – he fought hard for 12 months. He was my everything, just like your dad is to you. Stay strong and focused ~ answers and direction will help. The process is slow and gets frustrating. I’m praying for you, your dad and your entire family. Cancer is horrible!!! Virtual Hugs to you.
Laura says
I’m so sorry Brittany. It has always been apparent to me, even though I don’t know you or your family personally, that you all have such a tight bond and genuine love for each other. I love that you are able to talk to your father about this and hope that it continues to bring some comfort to you and your family.
Megan says
Really sorry to hear this. My father in law had Mesothelioma and it was heartbreaking. He also was a life long smoker who did not take super great care of his body so once he was diagnosed the treatment options were fairly limited. I will be thinking of your family and sending good vibes your way.
Brittany says
Something very similar happened to my family. 5 days after my grandfather passed away, my father was diagnosed with cancer. We didn’t think it was as advanced as it was. He had 2 months without treatment. It was the scariest time of my life. My life turned upside down. But a positive attitude was key! When my dad was at his weakest, I had to be at my strongest. Even if I was faking it. Stay positive Brittany! My dad is 4 years in remission and doing great! Sending lots of love your way!
Beth Gipson says
Brittany, I am terribly sorry and I will pray for all your family. I lost my father very suddenly at the end of March and it broke me. He was way too young, it was extremely unexpected, we were so incredibly close (I just lived a field over from them) and my 7 year old son used to walk over there every day to see my parents.
I am so glad that you shared this because it just reiterates what I have been living over the past several months…Life is SO short and the things in this world that used to seem so important don’t mean anything anymore. The people in your life, your family and friends, and your relationships with them and with Christ are everything.
I will pray so hard for you all, I promise.
Jen says
I’m so sorry you and your family are going through this. Wishing and praying for the best for your dad.
Erica says
I’m so sorry. My mom was diagnosed with breast cancer a few years ago. I found it so hard to get past my feelings of anger that it could happen to her. You and your family will be in my thoughts.
Megan says
I’m a long-time reader and have always appreciated that you open up your life to share with us. I teared up reading this post. I’ll be sending good vibes to you and your family and I hope for the best possible outcome for your father’s health <3
Ashley // neverhomemaker says
I’m so sad to hear your family is going through this. Sending love to you from NY.
Stephanie Coleman says
I have known your mom and dad for almost 15 years. Know that their Lake Oconee family will wrap them up in their arms of love and support.
Maria says
You’ve been in my thoughts and prayers, Brittany! These things are never easy, but so happy that you have a huge tribe of people surrounding you with love and support. The holidays are especially hard for those who are hurting, so be extra kind to yourself.
Carol L Ritz says
Believe in Miracles !! Regardless of the tests, pray and have your church member and friends pray also. Never believe that this is a final diagnosis, it can reverse. I trust your father can become cancer free, with hope and prayer. May God Bless your sweet family always !!
Paige C says
I’m so sorry to hear of your Dad’s diagnosis. I will keep him and your family in my prayers. Thank you for being willing to share even tough things.
Sarah says
I will absolutely be praying for your dad, you and your whole family. <3
Heather says
Brittany, I am so sorry to hear that you and your family are going through this. Please take some comfort in knowing that so many people are holding you in their prayers.
Donna says
I am so very sorry and heart sick to hear this news. Sending prayers and love to your Dad, you and your entire family. I completely understand every.single.word you wrote regarding your bond and your feelings. I have lived this story. My heart is reaching out to you in more ways than you can imagine Brittany. Please know you have an abundance of people praying for all of you.
Lucy Foster says
I’m so sorry to read this. I will pray for you & your family. My dad has had melanoma a few times, so I always hold my breath when he has tests done. Hoping you guys get good news at the next appointment.
Marie says
Thank you for sharing your story with us. From one daddy’s girl to another, my heart is hurting for you. I will certainly pray for you, your dad and your family.
Anna says
Praying so hard for you and your family and especially your dad. Sending warm thoughts and comfort as you all find your way through his diagnosis and treatment plan. You are surrounded by so many of us that read your blog and are praying for you daily.
Laura says
I’m so sorry to hear this, Brittany. I’m so glad you have an awesome support system. Thinking of you and praying for the best.
Stephanie says
So sorry to hear this. You and your family will be in my thoughts.
Melissa says
I am so sorry to hear this. I am a long time reader, and the strong relationship you have with your family, and father especially, is always so lovely to see. We will keep you, your family, and your father in our thoughts and prayers.
Kelly says
I know there are just no words to say, but my heart breaks for you. I have been a very long-time reader and absolutely love your blog. I often read the comments of your posts, and ALWAYS see that your Dad has commented such beautiful and insightful things – it always makes me smile to see his unwavering support and love for you! Throughout our marriage, I have walked alongside my husband through my mother-in-law’s battle with cancer. I will truly be praying for you and your family, and I completely believe in the power of prayer!! May you continue to find small pockets of peace and even joy with your family during this holiday season. I so admire your spirit and your heart. Sending you a big virtual hug, and you will be in my prayers!!!
Jennifer L says
Thinking and praying for your father, you and all your family.
Nina says
My heart goes out to you… no other words, just kind thoughts and feelings your way. <333
April Zook says
I am so sorry your dad and family are going through this right now. Please know you all are in my prayers, especially your dad. I believe with all my heart that God is good, and He is the same God before your father received his diagnosis. I pray that he can fight this and be strong through it all. It is so clear that your family shares a bond that is very special 🙂 Hugs to you 🙂
Karen says
Cry….Cry until you can’t cry anymore…..then fight!!!! Fight hard for him and with him and listen to his needs. It’s not going to be easy but you have a great support system….lean on them all.
I lived this hell with my mom until the end…..it’s not easy. Prayers to you all.
So sorry…..
Cassie says
You and your family will be in my prayers.
Tamara says
I never comment but this most brought me to tears. For you, your dad, your family, for everyone that experiences this. Dads are the most magnificent thing, ESPECIALLY in a girls life. It is NOT fair and I think it’s totally ok to feel that way, but with that being said, believe in miracles, believe in good, and tell your dad and your family every single day how much you love them (as I’m sure you already do). Your dad will always be your dad, sick or well, when you’re 30 or 90. That fact will never change. Sending you a huge virtual prayer and hug from a longtime reader.
sherry says
Dad and I read your blog and cried together, then smiled, and said how grateful we are for you and Kris, your families, our families, and friends. We appreciate the abundance of love and support. Makes my heart smile to read all the support from your social media friends too. Each day is a gift–make the most of it!
katie says
Thank you for sharing this. I am one of your readers who had noticed, before you said anything, that something was off. I am so sorry to hear this is why. I love that your dad is often the first comment on your blog, and that you two have a special friendship in addition to father-daughter relationship. You’ll all be in my heart.
Vienna says
I’m so sorry to hear. I know nothing I say can, realistically, patch your wounds but please know that my thoughts are with you and your family. Sending you all my love from Australia! Don’t be afraid, ashamed or embarrassed to cry when you need to – better to release your sadness than keep it bottled in. We’re all here to support you and your family during this difficult time.
Take care. xxx
Erin says
I will be praying for your dad, your mom, you, and your family. We may be strangers, but I feel like I know you and your family and wish you all nothing but the best.
Erin R says
I will be praying for your dad, your mom, you, and your family. We may be strangers, but I feel like I know you and your family and wish you all nothing but the best.
Maggie says
My heart & prayer go out to you & your family– may you find comfort when you need it most in these achy times.
Dana says
You and your lovely family will be in my thoughts and prayers!!!
Carli says
sending you and your family lots of love and positive thoughts!
Siobhan says
Oh Brittany I am so sorry to hear this news. I can only imagine how your heart aches. I lost my best friend to mesothelioma earlier this year after quite the battle. In her case it was peritoneal and she was a 28 year old famale but her family found great support and resources through the Mesothelioma Applied Research Foundation. I would be happy to get you in touch with her husband or mother if they could help in any way.
Prayers for strength and peace for your entire family 💙
Lindsay says
I’m so sorry to hear about this. I work in a doctors office and have unfortunately had several friends with cancer but they are all in remission now after treatment. Since cancer is now considered more of a chronic disease with all the advancements in treatment, it IS managable. I strongly believe positive thoughts and doing all you can do to heal yourself properly goes a long way. Stay strong!
amanda says
PRAYING SO HARD. He will get through this. Please research raw juicing, fasting cleanses, etc.Vitamin c infusions. Cancer feeds off of sugar. The body needs to be alkaline balanced and clean to rid itself of the cancer.
Heather says
Saying so many prayers for you guys. We’ve been dealing with cancer in our family far too much. I will tell you, my uncle was given a year to live, two if we were lucky, and his 2 years was this past august and he’s doing really well. I attribute it all to prayer and God knowing what he is doing. I know that doesn’t help in this situation, but with the right people and the doctors fighting for you, a lot can be done.
Jeannie says
Brittany I am so so sorry to hear about your Dad. My heart and thoughts are with you and your family. You can tell how amazing your family is just like you are. Prayers for your Dad. Xo
Kristin says
Thoughts and prayers to all! Have always enjoyed your Dad’s comments and have read some of his posts. My Dad went through a terrible illness when I was your age; so hard and life altering. Hugs!
Melissa says
Sending lots of prayers to you and your family. It’s always so clear how special your family is to you. Thank you for sharing and reminding me to hug my loved ones extra tight ❤
Katie says
Keeping you, your dad and your family in my prayers.
Katie says
Oh, I’m in tears. Unfortunately, I’m all too familiar with family members getting cancer. It really, really sucks and there’s no other (or nicer) way to put it. Thinking of you and your family. Sending all the love and prayers. xo
Amy says
Praying for you and your family. Thinking of you, crying for you (not out of pity but out of the understanding that this sucks) and sending blessings and positive thoughts your way.
Brittany V says
Brittany, my heart is aching for you, and I’m so glad that you found the words to share your hurt with your social media friends… I know oh to well the unfairness that accompanies a rare disease that brings so many questions, confusion, anger and tears. The biggest lesson I learned through all that was the constant reminder that life is fragile and precious, and it’s the people and quality time that really truly matters ❤️ Praying for you whole family and sending you lots of love
Kelli H (Made in Sonoma) says
Oh, Brittany. My heart breaks for you. I’ve witnessed the amazing relationship you and your dad have for years now on the blog. I can tell how much you admire him and how much he dotes on you. I love that he reads your blog posts and I ALWAYS love reading his comments. I think it’s the sweetest thing ever. I feel like society is hard on dads and some dads truly aren’t very loving towards their kids but your dad sure seems like a good one! I will definitely be praying for you, your dad, and your whole family. I’m glad you have lots of support in your life that is helping you through this. Just know there are even more people out there praying for you guys! <3
Caroline L says
I’m so sorry to read this. I’ve also had multiple close family members with cancer, including my grandma with mesothelioma (same thing, no exposure to asbestos!) and my mom with another rare one, and it’s heartbreaking. So so hard. Find the absolute best doctors in the field who specialize in mesothelioma; I’m sure you already know. Best of luck to your dad in his treatment path, and to you and your family as you support him. You are in my thoughts.
Jen says
Long time reader, first time commenting….
I am so so sorry you and your family are going through this. My mom was diagnosed with Mesothelioma in October 2015. Having a loved one receive any cancer diagnosis is hard, but this being such a rare disease made me feel isolated and ignorant, in addition to angry, lost and scared. I’d be happy to share any info, resources, or lessons I’ve learned on Meso. You have an army of supporters out here. Be well!
Samantha says
I can only imagine how stressful and emotional the last 8 weeks have been for your family. My heart goes out to each of you, and we will be praying for you.
My religion has a scripture with a beautiful promise:
“My name is Jehovah, and I know the end from the beginning; therefore my hand shall be over thee.” -Abraham 2:8
I believe that. Sending love and prayers your family’s way.
Kaitlyn says
Oh Brittany, I’ve been a long time follower and a rare commenter, just know that I’ll be praying and thinking of you and your family during this challenging time. There are no words to make things easier, just know that you and your family are in my prayers!
Kendra says
So very sorry to hear your news, Brittany. We lost my dad in July after a two year battle with cancer. The emotions are hard to navigate but we never lost our faith through it all. I pray for strength for you and your family and hope you’re feeling a big hug from all of us here! xx
Emily says
I am so very sorry. Sending many hugs and prayers to you and your family. This post brought me to tears, and it is a good reminder of what is truly important in life.
Rebecca G says
Oh Brittany I am so sad to hear this news!! Your Dad is so wonderful and I hate that he (and all of you) are going through this right now! My Dad had an aggressive form of cancer a few years ago and it was the scariest time of our lives. But have faith, lean on each other for support, and know how much love and prayers I am sending your way!! Hugs to you and your whole family!!
Anna says
I am so very sorry. Thinking of you and your family during this awful time. Three years ago, My mom died from a rare lung cancer (never smoked) 3 years after her diagnosis. It was such a terrible process. But, one positive that came out of the experience was knowing that we had limited time left together and really cherishing that time. We took girls’ trips, her bucket list trip, and made all of our time together really count. During that time, she wrote her life story for my daughter, wrote down favorite recipes, etc. The gift of that time was amazing, and I will always cherish it. I hold you and your family in my heart during this time of struggle and uncertainty. No matter the outcome, your dad will live on through you and your Precious girls.
Betty says
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family <3
Lissy says
So sorry to hear this *hugs*
Sending positive vibes your way.
Georgia says
Sending you and your family all the good vibes. This was so hard to read and I really hope everything goes well at the forthcoming appointment. Thinking of you x
Kim says
Oh Brittany and Dad (and Family too!) I was so hoping this was not it 🙁 Your family is such a wonderful bright shining light and I know will get through this hard time with flying colors. Lots of love and prayers from around the world! I know this was never one of the reasons your started a blog but an amazing benefit with the amount of love and prayers you all will receive!
Chandu says
I am extremely sorry! to read this. Your Dad will be in my prayers. Sending good vibes to your family to find strength and win over the situation.
Komal says
I am sorry to hear about this. Cancer really sucks. I will be praying for your dad and your family.
Laura says
I’m so sorry to hear this. You are right about cancer being not fair! Life not being fair, really. When my 15 month old was diagnosed I felt like I was drowning. But I eventually went moments, then hours without thinking about it. It’s so hard! Thinking of your family.
Brittany Dixon says
15 month old? Oh Laura, that breaks my heart. How are things now? Praying for you <3
Laura says
He is stable now, although life changes after cancer. It will always be part of him and it effects him each day. Luckily children are very resilient!! I am so thankful for him and the time we have. I hope you have a wonderful Christmas and can see your dad around the holidays!
Layla says
I’m so sorry you are going through this. I went through something similar with my dad. I will be praying for your family. I don’t comment often, but I really enjoy reading your blog. You and your family are in my thoughts.
Leigh Lofgren says
Brittany, this was beautifully written and knowing you all, more John and Sherry, this was not what I would ever imagine John having to go through.
I have you all in our prayers, will light a candle at the Cathedral of St. Philip in Atlanta this Sunday during the annual broadcast I produce/direct on WSB-TV.
Your Dad is a fighter, he is super fit and having gone through a very aggressive cancer myself for two years, it can be beat.
With love and you are all in our hearts and prayers.
Brittany Dixon says
Leigh, thank you so much for your loving words. A lit candle in the Cathedral sounds beautiful. That and your prayers are so appreciated. You are right, my dad is so strong in body and mind and I have faith he can fight this. Thank you <3
Jessica says
What a gut punch. I am so sorry to hear about your father’s diagnosis. I will pray for you all!
Cindy says
My goodness, I’m so sorry to read this. I will be praying for you and your family. My dad was diagnosed with esophageal cancer in Sept and to say it’s been stressful is an understatement. He’s gone through chemo, radiation and surgery will be next. As a family it’s been tough, but we are leaning on each other and just taking it one step at a time. Hang in there, I will be thinking of you!
Blair says
Oh no! I am so sorry this is happening to your dad! May you find comfort in each other and family and may you fight this fight quickly so this is soon in the rearview mirror. Another blog I used to read dealt with this cancer, happy to report her dad has been cancer free for 5 or more years now.
Priyanka says
I am so sorry about your Dad. Your Dad, you and your family are continuously in my thoughts and prayers.
Dean Conn says
Brittany, I have talked with your father many times. I have two daughters and so your Dad has often spoken to me of the wonderful relationship that he has with his daughter and how he wishes the same level of love between my daughter’s and me as he has with you. I came to know your father fairly well over time and he never beamed more than when he spoke of his family but there was always, I thought, a special twinkle in his eye when he mentioned you. He had always been so proud of you and your growing family.
I am in the deepest level of sadness to hear of your Dad’s condition and I am looking threw tears as I type this. My entire family has met and come to know your father and we will all be pulling for him in our continued thoughts and prayers as we follow his progress. Dean Conn & Family