Usually I label my day in the life posts with the kids’ ages (currently 6 years old and 3 1/2 years old BTW). However it just felt more fitting this time since I’m documenting my life, to label it with my own age. It’s crazy how once a couple years pass, it’s hard to remember what being a certain age looks or feels like. I’m grateful I have a record to look back on, to see how I’ve grown and changed over the past (almost) eight years I’ve been writing here. So now I’m going to a break it down- 24 hours in the life of a wife/mom/daughter who is 34 years old.
1:00 AM: I wake up and have to go to the bathroom. I keep my eyes closed, trying to convince my mind I’m not really awake. Though I’m back in bed two minutes later, my mind didn’t listen. It’s up and running thinking about everything and nothing all at once.
2:00 AM: Still awake. Sigh. I reach over and change my alarm from 4:35 AM to 6:00 AM. Looks like I won’t make it to the 5:00 AM Burn Boot Camp after all, but at this moment, more sleep wins.
6:00 AM: I’m up. I hear David in the shower. I strip the bed and go throw the sheets in the washing machine before making my way to the kitchen. I pour some turmeric tonic for both of us and grind some black pepper on top (it helps with the nutrient absorption), then turn on the coffee machine, bracing while it grinds the beans and hoping it doesn’t wake up Kaitlyn. Whew, it doesn’t! I head to the office to answer a couple emails and plan my day.
7:15 AM: Sitting in the office I hear the creak of a door followed by the usual “mommy, there’s a 7 on my clock.” I finish writing a to-do and don’t answer. A little louder now- “Mommy, there’s a 7 on my clock.” I smile to myself at how she always waits for confirmation. I ask her if she’s still tired and she says no, so she walks down the stairs and climbs up into my lap with her lovey, an old bunny we call Mimi. We talk about how she slept and what the day entails, then I carry her to my room.
I get dressed for the day and tell her that she’s going to stay home with Hailey and me this morning (germs are everywhere and we have a trip coming up- no chances!). She’s excited and asks to stay in pajamas. Sure, kid. Then we head to the kitchen and eat breakfast together.
8:05 AM: As I mentioned in my kids and sleep post, Hailey is still snoozing, so Kaitlyn and I go in to wake her. I’m grateful she wakes up smiling, which isn’t always the case. I plug in the space heater in the playroom, then we all head back to the kitchen. While Hailey eats breakfast, I empty the dishwasher, move the laundry, and eavesdrop on the girls’ conversation- something about fairies being more powerful than monsters.
8:45 AM: I send the girls up to get dressed and brush their teeth. I know this buys me about 20+ minutes of downtime depending on how distracted they get, so I sit on the couch, talk to Instagram, scroll through some social media, and psych myself up for school with both girls. Then I put my phone away. Keeping it in another room lately has been great for my focus.
9:20 AM: We all head to the playroom, ready to start school. We start with the circle time center, taking our time with each section. We start with the date and day of the week, and slowly make our way around the board. Kaitlyn is particularly into rhyming right now and wanted to match up all the cards. I remind myself the goal isn’t speed, and settle into a slow rhythm.
We move onto math. It’s mostly review, so we pull out the manipulative pieces and several worksheets from Math-U-See. Hailey has simple addition down and takes pride in using the colorful blocks to show Kaitlyn how to build and solve the math problems. Then she lets Kaitlyn color the answers. I smile because it’s pretty cute.
After a worksheet or two, Kaitlyn loses interest so I pull out the Magnatiles for her while I continue with Hailey. We finish the addition, do a little work on counting by 2’s, and patterns. Then we put it away. Hailey rushes over to join Kaitlyn and they start building cribs for their baby dolls. They are both super into it, so I let them play for about 20 minutes while I clean up and cut out paper trees for the craft.
We use marshmallows to paint snow onto the winter tree scene, and eat a couple (paint-less) marshmallows along the way. We talk briefly about snow, how each flake is different and how when water gets really hot it turns into steam, but mostly we just listen to the kid songs playing from the CD player.
After we clean up, we all pile onto the giant bean bag to read. Kaitlyn picks The Circus Ship, truly one of our favorite books, and Hailey chooses Little House on the Prairie. Kaitlyn hangs for a page or two of Little House before she takes off to grab a puzzle, but Hailey curls up next to me while we read about Ma hurting her ankle while trying to help Pa build the log cabin.
12:00 PM: I’m fried. The kids are fried. We’re all hungry. I make lunch.
1:00 PM: This is usually when the girls have quiet time, but instead of sending them upstairs, I let them bum on the couch and watch a couple WhistleFritz Spanish Immersion DVDS. I’ll be honest, I’m not always consistent with having them watch these, but they like them when we do.
1:15 PM: Hailey turns around every 10 seconds to tell me everything they are watching (MOM! Globos means balloons!) while I start making dinner. I can tell the girls are tired because we have a pretty big sectional couch, yet every 5 minutes I hear a whine (heyyy get off me) or a fake cry (Kaitlyn). I ask if they’d prefer to go sit in their rooms instead of watching TV and that quiets them down. For a few minutes at least.
2:00 PM Ding dong! Katie is here! For the past year+ I had a wonderful babysitter that would come all day on Wednesdays. In December she accepted a new job and we had to say goodbye. I was going to go it on my own, but David really pushed me to look around for a little help. Well I really lucked out and found a great sitter in the neighborhood who comes twice a week for 4 hours.
The girls run to the door to greet her and I warn her that they are pretty exhausted and not to be afraid to lay down the law. Katie laughs then takes the girls up to the playroom and I retreat into the office.
I spend two hours working on various things and could truly keep working another two, but after missing Burn, I felt like I really needed to move somehow someway, so I change into yoga gear, throw some brown rice in the rice cooker, and hop in the car. I make a quick stop by Publix (snow is forecaster and I needed bread, clearly) then head into the 4:30 slow flow yoga class.
I’ll be honest, the class wasn’t all that great. I’m not sure if I was tired, or had too much in my brain, or if the class was more clunky than flowy, but at least I got out and moved my body, right? Overall I’m very happy to be back to yoga (it’s my third class in a little more than a week).
5:45 PM: I’m back home and Katie has miraculously calmed the girls. They are playing with the dollhouse when I get home. We say bye to Katie and head to the kitchen for dinner.
The butternut squash and red lentil stew is warm and comforting. I eat two bowls with rice and a slice of sourdough bread from the freezer. We go around the table and all tell our highs/lows/gratefuls while David and I trade off saying “back in your seat” no fewer than 15 times.
Sometimes we do the bedtime routine together and sometimes we divide and conquer. I’m feeling beat, so David takes the kids and I take the kitchen.
I clean the kitchen and the coffee maker, load and set the dishwasher, wipe down the counters and sweep the floor because rice.
7:40 PM: I tell David I’m going to take a bath (a new-to-me habit that I’m slowly falling in love with). As I say that, Kaitlyn opens her door to ask something important like how any days is it until she is four, and I smile quickly at David then dart off to start the bath (which is pink from the bath bomb), leaving him to handle it.
8:20 PM: I’m warm, dry, and on the couch. David tells me how Kaitlyn poked her head out of her door about 3 more times with nonsense before he was able to shut it down. See, right after I talk about our sleep rules, my kid goes crazy. I know she’s extra tired and silently vow to try and get her to nap tomorrow. We watch an episode of The Middle and I can barely keep my eyes open.
9:00 PM: We crawl into bed. Though this is a bit earlier than usual, my body is needing sleep, which is evident because I’m fast asleep within about 10 minutes.
And that’s a Tuesday in life right now! I love writing these and was happy to hear y’all say on Instagram that you liked them too. And now, onto Wednesday! Oh, and that predicted snow? It came. And the girls are both already up and squealing. Here we go! π
John J. says
SAHM at her best. You covered all the mundane, and important, pieces of your life with the kiddos in this chapter of your life. It will be fun down the line to look back at these time. I’ll guarantee you that you will have a tear in your eye when you do it. Take my word, experience, on that!
Brittany Dixon says
We are fortunate to have so many wonderful memories to look back on with smiles! I still remember mom taping black garbage bags around my shoes to go out and play in when we had snow days in Kennesaw π
Kristen says
I am so sorry if you have already shared a link and I somehow missed it … but where did you get that big blue βCenter Timeβ board?? I love it!! Thanks so much! I LOVE these posts. I eat up every one of your homeschool posts because I am about a year behind you and homeschooling our girls! Thanks again!
Brittany Dixon says
Hi Kristen! The Circle Time chart was a gift from my mom and dad when Hailey turned 3 and it’s still a hit in our house. It’s from Lakeshore Learning- https://www.lakeshorelearning.com/product/productDet.jsp?productItemID=1%2C689%2C949%2C371%2C932%2C813&ASSORTMENT%3C%3East_id=1408474395181113&bmUID=1516201616326
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Kathy says
Fun to read about your day. Enjoy the snow and your Wednesday. On a snowy day fresh bread and fresh chocolate chip cookies sound great! π Have fun!
Brittany Dixon says
We’ll see if we have enough energy left to bake after we bundle up and head out. We aren’t the fastest crew with getting on snow gear π
Sue says
Which IS more powerful: fairies or monsters?! I love this. You are momming so well. β€οΈ
Paige C. says
Well I have some questions:
1. What kind of coffee maker do you have….it grinds the beans AND makes the coffee? I am intrigued
2. Do you make a big pitcher of the turmeric tonic at the beginning of the week? How long does it last?
Iβm so impressed with your ability to get everything done and be so present in your kids/husbandβs lives! Sometimes I feel so all over the place!
Brittany Dixon says
We have the Cuisinart DGB-550BK 12 Cup Automatic Coffeemaker Grind. It was a wedding gift 8 years ago and still works well!
I make a little more than a mason jar full of tonic on Sundays, then we drink a little each morning through Friday (if it lasts!)
I often feel all over the place too! but have made a sincere effort over the last couple of months to cut things out and add purposeful “white space” into my days. <3
Leah says
Love reading a day in the life posts. Fun twist from moms perspective.
sherry says
Your day makes me smile and it also makes me tired:) What a great documentary for you and David (and the girls) to look back on one day!
Baths are wonderful-relaxing-and time for yourself!
Brittany Dixon says
David asked jokingly how quickly I was trying to become you (with my baths and my veggie eating ;)) and I said he’d be a pretty lucky guy if I continued to be more like you! π LOVE YOU!
Blair says
I live vicariously through this posts. Currently I work full-time outside of the home, the two littlest go to daycare/preschool and the oldest is in Kindergarten/1st/2nd grade (she is brilliant and pushed up for reading and math but keeping her in kinder homeroom currently). I so wish we could swing the homeschooling and hope too in the future. the missing all of the the little things as well as some of the big ones is so hard on my mommy heart! I love my career and have worked hard to climb to where I am but my heart is no longer in it, just here for the paycheck!
Laura says
Blair, just wanted to say that I totally get where your are coming from. Before I was a teacher I worked regular 8- 5 days, with 2 weeks off per year plus major holidays. I watched almost all of my friends become mothers and fathers, and I saw how hard it was on them. There just isn’t enough time off. That is when I decided to go into teaching. I had taught some in college and loved it, and absolutely love math, my subject. Point is, as a teacher I have found a great balance between work and stay at home time. 3 months off per year is priceless. I love my job/ career and feel so fortunate to be able have both my work and summers/ extended breaks at home. Teaching is hard work, much harder than my office job, but if you love what you do it makes all the difference.
Brittany Dixon says
Just wanted to give you a hug and say that giving your kids the opportunity to see a mom that is loving and present AND kicking butt at work is a beautiful gift! <3
Laura says
Thanks for sharing your day! 34 was a great year for me! I was pregnant with my first child and adjusting to my new career as a teacher and move to Colorado. I totally did the same thing with my alarm last night. If I get up at 6 I have a relaxing morning drinking coffee and getting ready for work and out the door by 7:15, but if I’m not sleeping well I push it to 6:30 and rush around, chugging my coffee like a mad woman. I was doing 3 yoga classes per week over the summer when I was off work, but never really grew to love it. Since then I’ve fallen in love with body pump and zumba. At this point in my life, I need fast, loud music and lots of sweat. If I walk into a dark, quiet yoga class with everyone laying in corpse position, I just want to curl up and take a nap.
Rice on the floor is the worst- I usually wipe it up with a wet dishrag so it doesn’t smear.
Courtney says
I take a bath every night during the colder months – its my “me” time and also when I read. I love that my daughter is old enough now to know that as soon as she goes to bed, I go take a hot bath! Love reading the day in the life posts!
Katie says
I love these posts, but I will say as a blogger they are so boring to write! I’m working on one for next week since it’s been requested so many times.
Brittany Dixon says
Oh really?! I love writing them! I’d probably do it everyday except for the fear of boring people π Thank goodness for instastories!
montessoriishmom says
What recipe do you use for turmeric tonic? Sounds like a great / busy day!
Brittany Dixon says
Oops! I meant to link to it! Here it is– https://www.ahealthysliceoflife.com/turmeric-ginger-tonic-health-reset/
I’v gotten to the point where I leave the honey out, but it’s probably best to start with a little π
montessoriishmom says
Thanks so much!
Jeannie says
Love to see a glimpse of your life and how you juggle all the things!
Does Kaitlyn really brush her own teeth and dress herself? I’m impressed! Need to get on that with my just turned 4yo. π
Brittany Dixon says
I should note that at least once a day I help her brush her teeth, but otherwise, yes she does it on her own and does an OK job! As for getting dresses, she does, but her outfit choices can be a little… shall we say creative? π Unless we have family pictures though, I typically let them wear whatever they want (seasonally appropriate of course).
Paolo Ubiadas says
Congrats and I would like to say that I salute you since you know what getting old really means. I would like to add that I am already 39 years old, but I don’t feel like I am getting old since just like you, Im into healthy living.
Tracy says
This was a really fun post! Thanks for sharing π