I was recently reorganizing all the categories and posts for my new site design, and had myself a heck of a walk down memory lane. While little stories about our days are tucked into all kinds of posts, I’m really glad to have a collection of these day in the life posts, too. It’s neat to see how our days evolve and challenges change as the girls grow. So here’s a peek into life currently- a winter Monday!
I woke up at 6:00 and made my way to my yoga mat that is permanently rolled out on the living room floor. I’m trying to make it a daily habit, so for a couple weeks now, I’ve done 5 minutes of yoga a day. It’s silly how proud of myself I am for it and though I intend for the practice to be longer at some point, I don’t plan of increasing it anytime soon. Right now 5 minutes feels manageable.
After yoga, I make a cup of earl gray tea and headed to the office. David is already gone for work, so I enjoy the early morning quiet while posting my recent reads post, working on other posts, and returning emails.
At 7:40 I hear Kaitlyn’s bedroom door open. She usually sleeps until at least 8:15, but has been waking up earlier the last couple of days. She walks into the office bleary eyed and crawls onto my lap. I give her a big hug and sit for a minute before telling her I need to finish some things up. We have an understanding that I work until 8:00, then I’m all theirs.
She makes her way to the couch, puts on her ear phones, and wakes up slowly while listening to a Playaway audiobook.
True to my word, at 8:00 I tie things up and head to the kitchen. I’ve been on a smoothie kick lately. Frozen mixed berries, frozen half banana, half an orange, an inch of fresh ginger, baby spinach, MCT oil, spirulina, collagen, and water.
I blend it up, then take it to get dressed with me. Leggings, a new sweater from my recent Stitch Fix box, vitamin c serum, a small squeeze of CC cream mixed with my sunscreen, blush (I’m looking for a new one- any recommendations?), and a swipe of Telescopic mascara later, and I’m ready for the day.
I walk upstairs to open the door to Hailey’s room at 8:30. I tell her good morning as she starts to stir, then I head to the kitchen to get breakfast going for the girls. This week is cinnamon raisin bagels (Kaitlyn’s choice) and fruit. I make myself a fresh cup of tea (green this time!) and while the girls eat, I start on our history lesson.
We use Beautiful Feet for Early American History and the fact that it is literary based makes it the perfect subject to start the day with, since it’s just reading a book and discussing it together.
After breakfast and history, we break. They go get dressed while I check our meal plan then make the marinade (this one is my current favorite!) for the pork tenderloin for dinner.
Hailey and Kaitlyn usually get distracted while getting dressed, so I have to interrupt a game of Barbies to remind them to keep moving so we can get through their responsibility charts.
Finally I corral them back at the kitchen table and Hailey asks to do math while brushing through her hair (not because she is eager for math, but because it’s her least favorite and she wants to get through it). I set her up with her Singapore workbook and she gets to work on word problems while I start with Kaitlyn on her Good and the Beautiful language arts.
For the next hour and a half we do language arts, math, and reading. It sounds so dry when written like that, but it usually looks like- do a little math, walk to the mailbox to check the mail, do reading, then have a conversation about which Barbies are getting married and why while hanging upside down off the couch.
Late morning we eat again (snack plate for them, salad for me) while we finish up with science (currently learning about the human body). I use a combination of the Good and the Beautiful Human Body Unit Study, picture books, and Mystery Science (always the girls’ favorite).
After that we hop in the car to head to the chiropractor. I get adjusted, then we swing by Whole Foods in search of artichokes, but they are sold out, so I grab asparagus instead. Since it’s a rainy day and we are already south on the highway, we decide to visit The Homeschool Room and pick out some new books.
Just like a library visit, the drive back home afterwards is nice and quiet. The favorite new books from our trip include: Thank You, Mr. Falker (which always makes me cry), a few easy readers about the Titanic and figures in American history, and The Secret Lake (a book I know nothing about but Hailey thought looked exciting).
By the time we got home it was close to 2:30. For finishing their charts the girls earned their screen time tokens and opted to cash them in immediately. Kaitlyn used hers to watch some show on Netflix about a mermaid and Hailey used her to play games in the Reading Eggs app.
While they did that I did a little laundry and read my latest book, The Four Winds by Kristin Hannah.
David ended up working later than anticipated so instead of working out late afternoon, I played some games with the girls and we ate snacks (applesauce for them, Chana Masala from a pouch in the pantry for me). Finally the rain started to subside. Monopoly Deal is a favorite lately for shorter games, as is Ratatat Cat.
At 4:30 David and Hailey took off for her soccer practice. I wanted to move my body somehow, so I set Kaitlyn up with painting and her audio book while I headed to our makeshift home gym to run (even though I mostly walked) on the treadmill and watch Firefly Lane on my phone.
Less you think Kaitlyn stayed put the whole time, she didn’t. 30 minutes later she was beside me asking to push buttons on the treadmill, so I got in another 5 minutes or so then called it quits. We went to the kitchen and she “helped” make dinner. Helping with dinner means whisking the hollandaise sauce a little, but mostly getting out 17 containers and mixing water and spices together between them to make potions.
David and Hailey got home just shy of 7:00 and we all had dinner and listened to stories of soccer practice.
After dinner these days usually looks like one of two things. Either we play a couple rounds of a short game while I clean up the kitchen or the girls brush up and get in pajamas and we all meet on the couch where I read Harry Potter (currently on the 5th book) to them aloud while they color pictures and David cleans the kitchen (option B is my preferred choice).
Afterwards, even at ages 9 and 6, it still feels like it’s a struggle to get them into bed most nights. Kaitlyn either needs a little lotion for her hands from Hailey’s room or they want to trade books for the night, but typically after a couple stern- Girls. Bed. Now. they are in their beds by 8:30/8:45.
We go give them each a kiss goodnight then David and I usually plop onto the couch to watch TURN, a series based on Washington’s spies. After that we chat a bit, wash up, and call it a night by 10:00/10:30 which is a whole new ballgame for me, considering I used to be asleep on the couch by 9:00 during my early morning workout days.
No day looks the same, but for the most part I enjoy the sweet moments and challenges of them all, though we are reallllly looking forward to warmer days and more outside time. The rain in NC has been constant and after multiple days of it in a row, it really wears on us all. Bring on spring!
SHU says
Your DITLs always look sooo peaceful to me. (Maybe it’s a glimpse of my alternative reality if I hadn’t had #3!! hahah!)
I am motivated to do my own next week π
Brittany Dixon says
I do like the rhythm of our days, but I do go back and forth often about whether we should get them involved in more activities or not. But I feel like I’ve worked so hard to achieve this more relaxed flow to our days and get nervous about being overscheduled. Isn’t that motherhood though? Always questioning? ha π
Can’t wait to read yours!
Natalie says
Hi! I’m new to homeschooling this year with my kindergartener. We are planning to continue for 1st as well and her sister will join in for pre-k.
I keep worrying that they won’t be as busy as other kids in public school as far as activities go – but at the same time I’m so thankful that in a way, we are preserving their childhood. There will be so much time to be busy in later years.
That said, how often do your girls have activities, see friends, etc? I feel like you have this homeschool thing nailed so I am just interested in how you do things!
It is SO HARD to not second guess everything – how do you cope with that?
Brittany Dixon says
Hi Natalie! Welcome to the crazy world of homeschooling π I definitely don’t have it nailed, but I learn more and more each year what works best for our family and adapt as needed. I think that’s the secret. To answer your questions…
-In the beginning I worried about not being as busy as other kids and now I think it’s one of the biggest blessings. My girls have hours to play freely and create and their imaginations are truly strong in part because of this, I’m certain.
-Pre-covid we saw friends multiple times a week and were in a co-op. Post covid we don’t do a co-op but have activities (now that it is spring) most afternoons- soccer, tae kwon do, and Girls on the run. We have homeschool friends we see every few weeks for things like poetry tea time or park dates.
-Over time I’ve stopped second guessing myself so much. No path is perfect; we just do what feels best for us and adjust as needed. One curriculum choice or one decision for a time period isn’t going to make or break the experience.
My biggest advice is to trust yourself. You know your children better than anyone. π
Tracy says
I love these posts! Thanks for sharing.
coco says
love seeing your routine with the girls. I’m kind of jealous how much time you get to spend time with your daughters. I work full time and try to do that on weekends but during the week i’m out from 8-4pm.
i like the idea of snack plate for lunch, no fuss. do they eat while doing homework?
Brittany Dixon says
I typically try and do a lesson or read during meals because it keeps them seated and focused. My favorite way to start the day is read aloud at breakfast, then history during lunch but sometimes we have to improvise to get things done.
Kelli H says
Iβm so excited to read Four Winds soon. I think I have that grey shirt youβre wearing in a mustard color. This might be a weird question but Iβm looking for a new car soon. Was wondering what you have and if it has a third row?
Your days look fun and busy. I love that youβre reading the girls HP. I kept my books so that I can do the same thing once day with my girls. π
Brittany Dixon says
It doesn’t have a legit third row, just two seats you can pop up if needed. And they’re cozy π
Kelli H says
Thatβs all I need really. What kind of car is it?
Alexis says
Love the new site Brit! Looks great π
Brittany Dixon says
Thanks so much!! <3
Sarah says
Loved reading this “day in the life.” It sounds very familiar to life at my house right now, and I love (almost) every minute of it!
I’m so glad we got a break from the rain this week! We spent hours outside every afternoon!! It was SO needed after the weeks of rain and gloom!
What do you think of Firefly Lane so far? I thought the previews made it look potentially disappointing, but I have been pleasantly surprised!
I like the new site design! Everything looks really beautiful and user friendly. Are you planning to move up the “new” posts to the top? That’s my only possible suggestion, but I don’t mind scrolling down either…
Brittany Dixon says
Hi Sarah! So glad to hear y’all are doing well! On the right side (desk top) or at the top (on mobile) of my site there should be a button that says “jump to latest post” to make it easy to find!
It’s been so long since I’ve read Firefly Lane that I’m enjoying the series but I don’t like that there are some big difference (like johnny and kate divorcing, which is pretty big). I’m enjoying it for what it is but like with almost everything, I like the book better! I’m hoping they do the Nightingale justice when they turn it into a movie…
Kelly George says
Sounds like a lovely day, thanks for sharing – my days are becoming more like this now my girls are moving into higher education and my workload is decreasing, the relative peace is wonderful! But I wish we had something like The Homeschool Room here in Australia, wow.