So I realize it may be overkill, this writing of a PRE-birth story, but yet here I am writing it. I want to remember as much about the last few days as possible, so I’m starting at what feels like the beginning to me. I guess I could call it part 1, but either way, here we go!
I was supposed to be induced Thursday, the morning of May 15. I had accepted it and was excited. Wednesday night we grabbed dinner with family and cheersed (with a few sips of real wine!!- a friend said a few sips had helped her go into labor) to our last dinner as a family of 3.
I carb loaded on pasta, secretly hoping that spicy tomato sauce, the night’s full moon and the storm front moving in would put me into labor on my own.
No such luck.
I slept horribly that night. I woke up to listen to the thunder and willing my water to break. David’s alarm went off at 5:45 and he hopped in the shower. I took my time opening my eyes as the butterflies started kicking in… though I might not have chosen it, we were going to meet our baby girl today! I rolled over to turn off my phone alarm and saw I had a missed call from the hospital.
I secretly hoped they were calling to remind me to come in, but my gut knew better. Sure enough, Debbie the nurse was calling to say that all the labor and delivery rooms were full. Overnight the storms and moon had put so many women into labor that they had to put my induction on hold and I should call back at 9:00am. Tears flowed.
The rain was still pouring down and we all went out to grab breakfast to pass the time. We called the hospital at 8:00am, to which they asked us to call back at 10:00am. After breakfast, it was 10:00 and instead of calling, I insisted we just show up. We drove to the hospital and walked into labor and delivery. The nurses all looked at us. Clearly I was not in active labor, judging by my nervous smile, and once I gave my name and the staff knew I was the scheduled induction, we were turned away. No room at the inn.
We were sent over to my doctor’s practice where they gave baby girl a non-stress test. The great news was she was doing just fine. My doctor stripped my membranes again and said to show up the next morning at the hospital. At this point, I let go. Baby girl was not going to share a birth date (the 15th) with her sister. What a silly thing for me to focus on anyway, right? I feel a bit ridiculous for being so emotional about the delay, but hormones can do some crazy things! We went home and spent the day with family and napping and playing with Hailey and letting the excitement grow.
That night, with the help of my newly found what will be will be attitude, I slept wonderfully.
When the alarm went off the morning of Friday, May 16, I was already up and packing. Ready. Enthusiastic.
The day was unseasonably cool and the sun was starting to come up. It was a gorgeous day to have a baby.
David picked up a large coffee on our way to prepare for the unknown of the day. We arrived were admitted right away and given to a very friendly and sweet nurse, Amy. They hooked me up to fluids (where I reaffirmed my disdain for IVs) and the doctor came in to assess me. 2-3cm dilated. No change. Minimal contraction activity. Baby girl sure was cozy!
The plan was to break my water and start pitocin, but baby girl was still so high up that they couldn’t break my water. I was secretly thrilled about that, so they started a whiff (what doctors call it when they don’t want to freak out the nervous mommy-to-be) of pitocin to get things moving. The whiff did its job and immediately I was contracting at a steady pace of every two minutes. I could feel them and they were stronger than anything I had felt previously, but they weren’t painful. Baby girl’s heart rate stayed steady in 140’s.
So by 8:00am, the journey had begun! My emotions were scattered somewhere between excitement, relief and jittery with anticipation.
To be continued!
Lauren B. says
I know I already told you this, but I was scheduled for induction and they called me a couple of times to ask me to come later and later due to the full moon and no room! When I arrived, they asked me to come back the next morning, to which I dissolved into tears. I was adamant about staying and waiting, and luckily they saw me within a couple of hours.
So I can totally relate! And don’t be embarrassed about the tears… By that point you’d made the decision to induce and when they tell you it’s not happening, it’s a crushing disappointment. I get it.
Can’t wait to hear the rest!
Maria says
I guess the only reassuring words in those moments were “Well, she’s gotta come out sometime or another!”. Judging by her adorable photos alone, I have a feeling she was worth all the waiting and frustration 🙂
Ashley @ My Food N Fitness Diaries says
Oh man, I can’t even imagine those initial emotions when the nurses turned you away. But, I’m glad it all worked out and I can’t WAIT to read the rest of your story! 🙂
Nicole says
Ahh I want the rest!! Can’t wait to read 🙂
Carrie says
What a cliff hanger!! So happy for you guys!
JeniQ says
Aww, great pre-birth story, and way to make the best of the last days/hours before the baby came! Can’t wait to hear the rest of the story… keeping us in suspense!
Kathy says
Exciting!…..
Domi @ Eat Pray Lift says
Eeek, I can’t imagine how frustrating that must have been to be waiting to be induced and then have it pushed back further. Excited to hear the rest!
Katie says
Congratulations on Kaitlyn! As a Katie Elizabeth myself, I like the name choice! Not that I’m assuming you’ll call her Katie. 😉 My full, legal name is Katie and I get asked all the time what my full name is- ha! Enjoy these first few weeks of newborn-hood!
Marjorie says
I am happy for the update, and I cannot wait to read the rest! But I am kind of in awe that you took the time to write anything at all. At this point I was a mess! Hope you are getting some sleep. Kiss & snuggle that sweet baby!
Marjorie says
PS…I made your black bean soup recipe for dinner last night, and it was yummy. 🙂
Emily says
Yay! Can’t wait to hear more. I love birth stories 🙂
Jessie says
I was eager for my daughters to share their birthdate too but I’m glad they don’t. Lydia’s is the 18th (Nov) and Lyric is the 19th (Sept). It was close though! Looking forward to the rest of the birth story. 🙂
Jillian @ Baby Doodah! says
I don’t think it is weird AT ALL that you were so upset about not being able to be induced. I am positive had the same happened to me, with Emmett, I would have bawled. When you’re ready, you’re ready!!
Can’t wait to read the rest.
Katya says
I don’t think it’s overkill! The lead up is all part of it! Guessing things happened quickly if you had her at 2 in the afternoon! Look forward to hearing the rest, and congratulations again!
Candy Evans says
Enjoy with new born baby. Waiting for the pictures of baby…:)
char eats greens says
I stated thinking crazy things too when Nia was ready to come. I wanted her to come on the 22nd (instead of the 23rd) so her birthday would be 11/22 (or I was rooting for either the 14th or 17th because Tyler is the 15th and I’m the 16th — see how I think about EVERY little thing?!?). Go figure that nothing every goes according to plan (for me, at least!).
I know I’m SO late to reading this, but I had to read this one before the birth story. See you there next! haha
Trendy Tummy Maternity says
Can’t wait to hear more…